Wednesday, January 20, 2010

I Love...I Live...I Laugh

What to do when you love someone so much and are truly in love with them yet you love someone else. No one can help their feelings but how do you know when to act on a feeling. Sometimes your mind and heart can be in two places at once and you don't know which way to go. This is a dilemma that a friend of mine is facing.
She has a boyfriend she's been with for 5 or 6 years and they have a house together and have shared these 5 years with plenty of TLC. There is nothing that will break them apart (at least in their minds). They live life fully as a happy couple. The only thing is she has feelings for someone she's been close friends with for years.
She feels as though its wrong for her to like this friend yet wants to act on a relationship. This relationship could possibly jeopardize her current relationship. Her acting on her feelings could end something permanent for what could be a few days of pleasure. Now my response is to play it safe and love the one you're with. She says you can't fight feelings. What do you think bloggers?
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Monday, January 11, 2010

Life is like...

...A box of chocolate, you never know what you're gonna get -Forest Gump
Not that anything is wrong, but I just decided to blog. I have been enjoying 2010 so far and am praying it continues to get better each day. I have laughed, smiled, joked, etc since January 1. I continue to believe and have faith in God and know everything works according to his will.
I was blessed with trials and tribulations in 2009 to be blessed with the overflow in 2010. I am no longer stressing over things out of my reach. I will not continue to live in the same situation as before. I will continue to be a better person. I will continue my education. I will succeed. How has 2010 been to you so far? And what are you contributing to it to make it better?

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Tuesday, January 5, 2010

New Year, New You, New Outlook on life!

So this is the 3rd day of the new year and what a great 3 days it has been. I started off the new year at watch night service and brought it in with the Lord on my mind. I feel I was in the right place, especially with all of the pain and sorrow 2009 brought upon me and my family. I am grateful for those trials because they helped me to grow but I am walking into my season in 2010.
It feels great to bring in 2010 with my family bonding and focusing on what's important. Life is too short for grudges and no one has the time or energy to try to remember every negative thing someone has done. Forgiveness and learning from mistakes leaves u feeling great about yourself and is the right thing to do. I'm happy we brought in the new year with a positive attitude and outlook on what 2010 will bring. We didn't make resolutions but only promises of acts of kindness and working with each other to get over the worst TOGETHER and not point the finger of blame. What are you doing to make sure you have a prosperous 2010???
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